Local Area FCA Blog

Recognition and Response

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 02:15:57 GMT

As we read the stories of Jesus, we soon marvel at the array of characters, personalities and backgrounds that He chooses to engage. We read of kings and commoners, priests and paupers, rulers and wrongdoers. We know of farmers and felons, schemers and scorners, masters and manipulators. Truly, “there is no favoritism with God” (Romans 2:11). And a continuing theme throughout the constant stream of interactions is that of recognition — a two-way recognition.

One direction of this recognition is that Jesus is able to see through the image that each person has either managed to manufacture or has inescapably inherited. He cuts through the screens and sees where their projection is sourced. He sees them for who they truly are. And this light, His light, is met with differing reactions. Some squint and squirm while others repent and find rest.

The second direction of the two-way recognition is related and often comes on the heels of the first. We see it when differing individuals recognize who Jesus is. Some of the more memorable reactions mark world-changing conversions. Peter exclaims, for example, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God!” (Matthew 16:16). The Samaritan woman at the well testified, “Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did! Could this be the Messiah?” (John 4:29). And after fearing for their lives within a storm-tossed ship, his disciples marveled, “Who then is this? Even the wind and the sea obey Him!” (Mark 4:41). But again, this recognition isn’t shared only by those who repent and find rest.

We see some who squirm and squint at their recognition of who Jesus is. We find Pilate’s playful suspicion when asking the Jews, “What should I do then with Jesus, who is called Messiah?” (Matthew 27:22). We also hear the shrieks of demons who shout, “What do You have to do with us, Son of God? Have You come here to torment us before the time?” (Matthew 8:29).

So then, what are we to do with this two-way recognition? We are to rightly recognize Christ for who He is — the Son of God incarnate. But we’re not to stop there, for even the demons can rightly recognize Him in this regard. In light of this truth, we’re invited to be truly known and truly loved — to repent of our sin and rest in Christ’s finished work. We are to submit to His Lordship.

A final implication is to clearly present Christ to others. Their reaction, as we’ve seen, is beyond our control, but we are to faithfully usher them to a recognition of who He is. A continued effort toward clarity through Scripture and the enlightenment of the Spirit is our only hope for a right response to this two-way recognition. Our pursuit and prayer is a response much like those who observed and listened to the Samaritan woman at the well. “We no longer believe because of what you said, for we have heard for ourselves and know that this really is the Savior of the world.” (John 4:42).

Here are a couple questions I’ve considered in response to this two-way recognition:

Who have I recently overlooked or thought beyond the reach of the gospel?
What uncomfortable area might God be calling me to step into in order to clearly present Jesus as Messiah?

Marks of a Worthy Mission: Part 5, A Growth Mindset

Mon, 23 Oct 2023 18:05:11 GMT

When we’re invited to adopt a growth mindset, we’re open and eager to subscribe. Whether it’s relational, intellectual, or financial, growth sounds great! There are actually very few areas of our life where we would consider it a bad thing. And yet, our commitment to growth is open calculated. Meaning, our intentions for growth and the effort required to obtain growth will open have an expressed aim, a desired endpoint. As long as an effort is required, we hold a metric in mind that would qualify as “enough”. There is a concept of comfort that we’re willing to work toward, but it’s with the intention of eventually ending the effort. For example, we’re willing to build a house so that we would have a house to live in. And we’re willing to invest in retirement so that we would one day be able to retire. However, the growth mindset that we endorse and embrace at FCA, pushes beyond any cradle of comfort. In this final post of my five-part series, I’m leaning into the perpetual posture of growth that consciously resists a destination. It’s our commitment to a continual cost, an ever-reaching arm, an eternal impact. Spiritually, this concept is known as perseverance and Paul speaks to its effects in Romans 5:3-4.

We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

At FCA we’re convinced that anything less than a growth mindset would become a guaranteed, eventual end. Our continued existence and impact as an organization stands testament to this belief and commitment. We’ve refused to view a first down as a Super Bowl victory. We know that there will always be more effort to exert, more cost to consider, and more people to impact, and we also know that it will always be worth it. The metrics of our growth mindset embrace an ever-expanding scope that will continue to invite more investment and more involvement from more individuals. This growth mindset is the final mark of a worthy mission.

Marks of a Worthy Mission: Part 4, An Intentional Plan

Tue, 18 Jul 2023 13:04:22 GMT

In part 3, I worked hard to convey our central mission of building relationships. That focus must be understood and maintained before moving on to our present point, an intentional plan. It’s important because we can often believe that relationships are strictly organic. They’re easily seen as essential, but are too often assumed or overlooked. We like to think that the most natural relationships are the most genuine; the ones that we feel don’t require work. Perhaps even more common, it’s believed that structure will either deprive a relationship of its sincerity or suffocate it with monotony. But in truth, healthy relationships require intentionality. As warned by the well-worn axiom, “Failing to plan is planning to fail”.

So, how do we value both the stability of structure and the spark of spontaneity? In God’s revelation of Himself, through both creation and Scripture, we see incalculable structure that is also dynamic and spontaneous! Structure can be suffocating, but it doesn’t have to be. Spontaneity can be risky, but it doesn’t have to be. The deeper truth is that the two actually need each other. For example, the beauty of a basketball star is her ability to be creative, dynamic and spontaneous within the structure of the game. And while the freestyle skateboarder might take pride in his sport’s wide parameters, he still requires structured rails, ramps and judges. This guides us, then, into appreciating our dynamic and spontaneous relationships that require structured acknowledgement and investment. Our world is moving faster than it ever has before and I’m not only referring to its technological progress or global connectivity. Our days are fleeting. Months seem to dissipate like steam. Years are succinctly filed away. Because of this, we’re faced with the reality that if we desire to create experiences and spend time with others, we need to plan to do so. When it comes to investing valuable time with those that matter to us, spontaneity is often a luxury. Increasingly, it requires a focused effort.

Finally, how are to we to handle our plans? Loosely. Proverbs 19:21 teaches us, Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the Lord’s decree will prevail (HCSB). Yes, we should make plans, but then subject them to the Lord. Yes, we should aim for connections, but seek the Lord’s alignment. He forever holds the authoritative audible. He’s the Great Choreographer. Our plans need to allow and sometimes expect His divine disruption. Still, we must plan. And we must plan with intentionality.

Marks of a Worthy Mission: Part 3, Building Relationships

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 18:00:09 GMT

We’ve now come to the center of our 5-part series: Part 3, Building Relationships. But this isn’t simply half court or the 50 yard line, rather it is the very heart of our mission. Everything thus far leads to this point and everything to follow will draw from this point. This is our pulse. This is our purpose. Every huddle, every sports camp, every conference, fundraiser or building campaign would become a destructive distraction if separated from this aim. We exist to build meaningful and lasting relationships to the glory of God. Our hearts echo the apostle’s,

“We cared so much for you that we were pleased to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become dear to us.” (1 Thessalonians 2:8 HCSB)

I have a friend who notes the difference between a decision-centric ministry and a disciple-centric ministry. The first fosters the angst of a salesman who seeks to close a deal. Flush with clever marketing and emotional opportunity, an environment is created, a relationship is leveraged, and a decision is solicited. Assuming a positive outcome, that decision-maker is then trained to leverage more decisions. Conversely, a disciple-centric ministry invites others to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus. This same invitation is extended to believers and unbelievers alike. It is gentle, pa:ent and seeks conscious, costly commitment to a life under the Lordship of Jesus. Discipleship is not seen as a post-conversion training program, but the varied process of increasing intimacy with the One who calls us all to abide in Him (John 15). The disciple-centric ministry seeks to build relationships without a thought of leveraging them.

If we are to truly be a disciple-centric ministry then we must be en:rely about relationships. We cannot be a people who simply share the gospel and then move on with life. We must be a people who yearn for deep relationships with others and rejoice in their deepening relationships with Jesus. This cannot be manufactured or manipulated. It is not conceived, but received. It is a journey that we’re invited into, not a trail we’re called to blaze. When building relationships, I’ve found three things that enable me to build deep and sincere relationships with others as Jesus did:

By learning their love language. I apply the principles found in Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages by communicating my care and concern in the ways they recognize. I aim for fluency in their language of appreciation.
By learning the power of presence. I open underestimate how distance can deteriorate a relationship. In our virtual and isolating world, I strive for in-person interactions whenever possible.
By learning the significance of consistency. I cannot know everything about everyone and I’m not called to. But I do need to be consistent and available to respond when someone needs my help, support and prayers.

Marks of a Worthy Mission: Part 2, A Team Approach

Thu, 11 May 2023 15:48:14 GMT

In our age of individualism and pragmatism we’re likely to have some misunderstandings about why we’d seek to create a team. We might assume it’s because a job is too big to do alone or perhaps because it requires an area of expertise in which we lack a particular skill. These can both be true, but both are also products of a culture obsessed with efficiency. Meaning, our society tends to invite others into a project only as a last resort. Our requests of others are reserved for the end of our rope; for when we see no other way. We reason that because others are already busy and further communication will only frustrate our timelines, that the project itself would be better served with as few personalities as possible. The adage is convincing: “If you want something done right, do it yourself.”

At FCA, though, we believe that community is not simply for the sake of efficiency. Our eternally Triune God is a God of relationship and He has crafted us in His image for relationship. He has imprinted on us an inherent need for community. Because of this truth we’re convinced that even if the vision weren’t too big, and even if we did possess the particular skills needed, that we still ought to invite others into our Kingdom work. I’m pulling the “Jesus-card” on this one: even He enlisted a team! It certainly wasn’t a matter of efficiency. He could’ve accomplished His earthly mission as quickly as He brought galaxies into existence, but He chose to invite others into this Kingdom work. And He still does.

So, rather than stating, “we need a team to accomplish our vision”, we’re convinced, simply, that “we need a team”. At FCA we aim to involve others through prayerful invitations and help them discover how their gifts can be used for eternal purposes. As conduits of Kingdom work we continue to witness a two-fold blessing: on those pouring, as well as those poured into. To withhold this invitation, then, would be a disservice to everyone involved. The team-approach is an essential part of our "Great Co-mission”.

Here are a few questions I’ve used to cultivate and clarify my team approach:

Am I reducing my team approach in the name of efficiency?

Am I trying to prove myself to others?

Do I tend to be impatient while working with others?

How can I better listen to my community?

Who am I involving in my work alongside me this week?

Marks of a Worthy Mission: Part 1, A God-Sized Vision

Wed, 26 Apr 2023 14:33:17 GMT

At FCA we often talk about seeking and clarifying a God-sized vision for our lives and ministries. In doing so we aim to convey that God’s vision is immense and, by implication, impossible. That is, it’s impossible on our own. We purposely position ourselves into a posture of reliance on Him and His ability. And this vision is centered on building the only Kingdom vouchsafed to eternity.

When we speak of a God-sized vision, we’re not expecting every climb to be an Everest or every word to be one heard around the world. Truly, it’s a different notion of size than we’re used to. We’re referring to one simply larger than ourselves; further than our capabilities or interests; greater than our dreams or desires. The success of such a vision is beyond our reach and even that of our community. It is innately dependent on a divine act. It scares us at times. And yet, it could be as “small” as clothing or feeding another. “I assure you: Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of Mine, you did for Me” (Matt. 25:40 HCSB).

This type of fruit can only grow from a soil softened under the Lordship of Jesus. His authority feeds everything we do with purpose and passion. It empowers us to live, act and participate in sincerity and clarity. We will show grace because we’ve been shown grace. We will forgive because we’ve been forgiven. We will fully love because we’ve been fully loved. It is only in the softened soil of humility, that the seed of a God-sized vision can take root and be cultivated.

The art of cultivating, then, begins in the Great Commission given in Matthew 28:19-20: “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe everything I have commanded you.” This God-sized vision is a one-size-fits-all. It’s an instruction for everyone under His authority and serves as His calling on His people for His purposes. Stemming from this vision we find clarity for our churches, our families, and our lives. This God-sized vision then reaches into even our Mondays and Tuesdays. Here are a few questions I’ve used to cultivate and clarify my God-sized vision through different seasons:

Am I subjecting every aspect of my life to His authority?

What attractions am I allowing to distract me?

What fears am I allowing to throttle me?

Are my capabilities defining my boundaries?

How can I join God’s work in the lives of those around me?

A Plant Still Potted

Wed, 01 Mar 2023 14:20:08 GMT

There is a sense of freedom and adventure that comes with mobility, but there is also an inescapable inhibition. In this way our lives could be compared to a potted plant. It’s free to travel, but its roots are bound and its growth is limited until it has been planted where it’s meant to be. Kate and I have been riding the exhilaration of relocation, but have recently found ourselves longing for the deep, rich soil of everyday life. God has blessed us relationally as we’ve begun to dig in, but logistically, He seems content to leave us potted longer than we’d expected. We’re still shopping an erratic and intricate housing market. We continue acclimating to schools, workplaces and grocery store layouts. We’ve yet to choose our mechanic or pizza shop. Still, there is an exciting possibility that every house might be our home. Every avenue might be our address. If I sound a bit disjointed to you, then I’m communicating well.

Whether potted or planted, our Gardener has been good. He has been intimate and faithful. He has been both patient and prodding. With every touch He gently guides us in His will and, just as importantly, in His time. A friend of mine recently told me that a great decision at a terrible time will be a terrible decision. In our eagerness to escape the clay walls of our pot and stretch our reaching roots into soft, fresh soil, we’re wary of digging in where we don’t belong. These well-worn words of Jesus have aired a fresh breeze across our longing leaves:

This is why I tell you: Don’t worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; or about your body, what you will wear. […] Learn how the wildflowers of the field grow: they don’t don’t labor or spin thread. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was adorned like one of these! […] Your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you.

— Matthew 6:25, 28-29, 32-33 HCSB

His provision is promised! He sees our needs and invokes His own track record. Could we ask for more?! This passage is an appropriation of priority. It’s an invitation to see and seek through the lens of His kingdom. The pot that we’ve found ourselves in is part of His process and our eyes must be set on His. When we feel that our hopes are hanging, that our roots are restricted, that our fruit is frustrated, that our wishes are wilting, we’re reminded that He is the Lifter of our heads (Ps. 3:3). He’s preparing the ground and will plant us once more. Until then we’re invited to rest… as a potted plant in His gracious hands.

Penniless Pride

Thu, 02 Feb 2023 02:26:55 GMT

Each year I aim to identify a word to live by. I rarely share it, but quietly wrestle with and aim toward it. The word is intended to frame my goals for the months ahead and fasten a fallback position for when I inevitably lose my way. The process of discovering the word is a journey in itself: I begin with my weaknesses. I sort through the faults that I perceive along with those graciously voiced by others. Where am I not growing? What might God want to refine? Once I catch my breath, I carefully begin to pray and study the Scriptures with a renewed trust in the Spirit’s work of making me more like Christ.

This year’s reflection has helped me realize that I’m not that gentle of a person. And if gentleness is the fruit of humility, I’m not that humble of a person. Offered with her sincere smile and honest affection, my wife, Kate, observed my daily operations: “You could’ve been in the military.” Discipline, game plans, and execution are certainly metrics I’ve aimed to cultivate (a few of my prior words for the year), but I’ve allowed the pendulum to swing beyond its intended center. Tanks are effective, but aren’t known for their subtleties. Indeed, gentleness and humility have become casualties of my daily missions.

To begin one of his more provocative sermons, Jesus explained the inversion of his Kingdom: “The poor in spirit are blessed, for the kingdom of heaven is theirs” (Matthew 5:3 HCSB). It’s a simple statement of belonging which sets the tone of his message and indicts the tone of our world’s. Here on earth the poor in spirit are more often pitied and displaced than positioned and praised. Using economic terms, Jesus sums their pride as penniless. In terms of prominence, they’re paupers. Their humility is unnervingly close to humiliation. But Jesus makes it clear — his Kingdom belongs to them.

Gentle. This is my word to live by this year. This is my word to wrestle with and aim for; to frame my goals and fallback to. When possible, I intend to pray before voicing my thoughts or offering my opinions. I want to consider their reception before their release. I aim to be deliberate in deferring to others. I plan to apologize when I allow problems to eclipse people. I desire to be a gentle person, humble, poor in spirit, like Jesus is. For this is the way of his Kingdom.

Year End Letter

Thu, 15 Dec 2022 20:01:03 GMT

Dear Friends,

It’s hard to describe our family’s recent adventures within a few sentences… but I’ll give it a shot. From leaving our home, our friends and family after 40 years in New York, to beginning a new role in FCA and moving across the country to Kansas; it feels as though we’ve lived a lifetime in a single year. The Lord has been relentlessly good to us through it all. We’ve discovered more of His mercies and grace inviting us to depths of faith we’ve never experienced before. And we can’t begin to express the many ways you’ve supported us by way of prayers and generosity. We thank you, truly, from the bottom of our hearts. Our lives and those to whom we minister have been forever changed because of your friendship, support and love.

This is quite possibly the most exciting time in FCA’s history as we're on the doorstep of our first ever Capital Campaign! We plan to build facilities that would sustain the advance of our mission for generations to come. It’s a mission worth reiterating: We aim to lead every coach and athlete into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church.

Our team of Regional leaders is growing! I’m privileged and humbled to coach them through biblically based, donor-centered-development. And by updating our Leadership Board resources we seek to support every staff member, ensuring no one will serve alone in their communities.

As we launch into another year, the Lord has big plans for our Donor and Board Advancement team. Our goal is to provide Strategy, Training and Resources for fields around the globe. These foundational relationships – Donors and Board Members – are critical to the legacy of FCA and will ultimately impact eternity. This year we’ll be working to expand donor generosity in three critical areas:

Launch our Every Generation campaign to raise $100 Million over the next three years for building FCA Sports facilities.
Build a robust training and development plan for the Regional Directors of Donor and Board Advancement. (This includes podcasting, blogging, online training and cutting-edge professional development in the area of donor development.)
Create a donor-centric-development model for our staff (building on the missionary support model) to include regional and organizational donor-growth strategies.

Friends, I’m grateful to you and grateful for you!

May your Christmas be blessed in the light of our Savior’s love,

David Parks

Curating my Comforts

kara@tonesstudios.com (Kara Kooistra) — Tue, 29 Nov 2022 00:11:53 GMT

It’s official. The Parks family is now mostly Kansan! I say mostly because there are quite a few possessions still trickling onto our doorstep in shipping containers. Unwrapping your own belongings can feel a bit like Facebook’s Memories feature by ushering smiles, stories, and occasional concern. What was I thinking?! Very soon, though, our family will be certified midwesterners with a mailing address and license plates to prove it. I know families relocate all the time, but this has been an entirely new experience for me. At times it’s felt a bit out-of-body; as if I’m watching a movie about a man and his family on a fearless, westward adventure, while behind the scenes I’m privy to the doubt and indecision that plague it. It’s certainly been difficult, but surprisingly more frustrating: it’s been uncomfortable.

Before this life-change, I didn’t realize how deeply I’d desired and designed my comforts. I had a favorite coffee shop and a favorite coffee. I had a barber. I had a daily routine and I could drive places without needing GPS. I knew where to pay my taxes and I knew how much they would be (just kidding). In a way this sounds ridiculous, but it proves a more ridiculous point: I’d spent years crafting a comfortable life by padding it with preference and predictability. Though I don’t believe I’ve been called to a life without comforts, I do believe I’ve been drawing a portion of my peace from them.

Callouses, like comforts, properly develop against abrasions, but when they’re torn away the skin is raw, exposed and sorely sensitive. This is where God has me. Being stripped of my calloused comforts I’m finding an increased sensitivity to what God is saying and doing. More than simply receptive, I’m expectant, eager even, to move beyond this stage of exposure. I’m looking for a new barber, frantic for a firm routine and desperate for a bold coffee brew. Comfort isn’t evil anymore than chaos is holy, but at the heart of the matter is this question: How deeply do I allow my luxuries to placate my listening? This time of transition has served as a gracious invitation to lean in.

So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?” These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. Don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today. Matthew 6:31-34 NLT

A final thought: as I sort through my boxes of belongings, I’m granted an opportunity to reevaluate each item’s readmission to my life. I’m curating my comforts. And as my callouses begin forming once again I’m praying for wisdom in the process.

Sorting Through the Seasons

kara@tonesstudios.com (Kara Kooistra) — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 17:20:57 GMT

In the Northeast, we experience each of the four seasons vividly. The bright light of spring celebrates newness and agricultural life for which the summer sun and summer rains call us to cultivate. Then the cool, crisp colors of fall invite us to harvest before the cold hand of winter tightens its grip. And just as we begin to consider an escape for survival, winter again is softened by spring. Such are the seasons in all their glory — ever-changing transitions.

With slightly less grace and far less forecast, we observe the ever-changing transitions in our own lives and call them seasons — a recent reflection from the treasured work of Richard Blackaby, The Seasons of God. While this is most often when we’re clawing for hope by trusting that our situation is temporary, there is a deeper reality in the metaphor. We experience the bright joys of new life, the summer strides of work well done, the resulting fruits of wise investments and the quiet cold of isolation or departure. These seasons of life, though, are not as neatly packaged or predicted as the seasons outside our windows.

For the Parks family, we’re nestled somewhere between winter’s isolation and spring’s celebration. Kate, the kids and I are in the throes of relocation. And while we’re fully convinced and committed to this calling, we’re also daily exposed to the reality of its cost. We’re saying goodbye to forty-one years of community, geography, stability and predictability. And we’re saying hello to all things new.

It’s from within this seasonal shift that I’ve found I’m not a spring or winter kind of guy. If I had my preference, I’d live in an eternal autumn where football just happens to be perpetually played. In fact, I’m finding the spring-like newness of this season is disrupting my routines and I’m feeling very much on the wrong side of the seasonal circuit. Yet I’m also finding that God uses these interruptions as invitations.

The meditation of my heart has centered on Proverbs 2. In verses 1-5, I find an encouragement to store up:

My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, listening closely to wisdom and directing your heart to understanding; furthermore, if you call out to insight and lift your voice to understanding, if you seek it like silver and search for it like hidden treasure, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and discover the knowledge of God.

This encouragement to store up hinges on what God stores up in verses 6-7.

For the Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding. He stores up success for the upright; He is a shield for those who live with integrity.

The interruption of my routine invites me to seek the wisdom and stability found in Him alone. Just as the sunrise keeps its rhythm through winter, spring, summer and fall, so my relationship with God graces and grounds my life as I sort through the seasons.

I’d love to know — what season does God have you in?

_________

References: The Seasons of God, How the shifting patterns of your life reveal His purposes for you by Richard Blackaby

Two Edge Sword

Wed, 28 Jul 2021 21:56:59 GMT

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"For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires" Hebrews 4:12

Call

Thu, 27 May 2021 22:11:50 GMT

For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile—the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:12-13

While it may seem hard to believe, in today’s world, phones are still the number one communication device that we use. When they were first created, the ability to pick up the phone and talk to someone who lives anywhere changed the world in a dramatic way.

In my line of work, I spend about 90 percent of my time on the phone, or constructing a plan for who I am going to call that day. I love it because it is a way to connect with people. My reasons for a call vary: I might want to invite someone to do something, or need something from someone, or maybe I need to communicate with someone a feeling I have for them, or even just to order take-out! While my reasons for a call may differ, all of them denote that there is a relationship I have with someone.

When I reflect on my daily schedule, I ask myself, “How much of my time do I spend calling on God, the most important relationship I have above all others?” When I have questions and need answers about a relationship or a life situation, do I call on Him first, and Him alone?

Calling on God is not about “checking off” the Ten Commandments, it’s a way of connecting with Him and seeking His will for our lives above all else. In Romans 10 Paul reminds “everyone,” … Jew and Gentiles alike, that when we call on God, He is rich to us and we will be saved. So, why wouldn’t we want to call on Him for everything?

If we are not sensing His richness in our lives, and security in our eternal purpose, we are probably not calling on Him. When we as Believers call on Him for our strength and His richly blessings, then He will be glorified and we will be saved.

Who am I?

Thu, 29 Apr 2021 22:10:20 GMT

Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it. 1 Peter 3:15

Recently, I had a rare opportunity to go to Wegmans by myself, without any of my three young children in tow. I was looking forward to getting through the list in a more efficient manner than normal. While in the checkout line, the cashier who was a young woman began to share about the disparaging remarks that had been directed to her by not just one, but two of the prior customers. She offered these remarks to me unsolicited which told me that she was really hurt by what had taken place.

I offered the first thought that came to mind and so I said, “What people say to you is not a reflection of who you are.” She looked at me and asked, “Are you some kind of inspirational speaker?” I told her that I wasn’t, but that I really believed what I had just said to her. As she continued to load the cart, my mind quickly drifted back to my eagerness to be on my way. As I left the store and made my way through the parking lot, the verse from 1 Peter came to mind, “… you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks you about your Christian hope, always be ready to explain it.” (1 Peter 3:15). I knew that in my haste to finish my shopping, I had missed an opportunity.

Some other responses began to run through my mind about what I could have, and should have said when she asked “who am I”. Sometimes, as Christians we can spend a lot of time “preaching” to people who may not be ready to hear it. But here, this young woman had noticed something different in me, and had specifically asked me about who I was, and I failed to let her know that who I am is a reflection of God at work in me.

This incident was a reminder to me that if I am living it, and am asked about it, I must have an answer prepared that both pleases and glorifies Him. I am not holding on to the guilt I felt that day, because I know God has all things in hand. I share my experience to encourage us to be prepared to give Him the credit when someone notices something “different” about us.

The Advantage

Fri, 02 Apr 2021 22:07:56 GMT

Nevertheless I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send Him to you. John 16:7

Having the advantage over your opponent in sports or in life is an interesting place to be. On one hand, it is exactly the position you desire. On the other hand, you know just how fragile the position is and that it can be lost at any moment even with the slightest misstep.

I can remember as I was running the only marathon I have ever attempted to run in my life feeling as though I had the advantage. After completing the first twenty miles in three hours, I was feeling great and had my goal of completion under four hours in sight. With 6.2 miles remaining, I hit the proverbial “wall” and any advantage that I felt I had was suddenly gone. It took me one hour and twenty-two minutes to finish the race. I had clearly lost the advantage.

As Jesus was preparing his followers for his departure, He described how in leaving them it would actually be to their advantage. Conversely to earthly or temporary advantages, this advantage would never leave his disciples. The Holy Spirit would allow Christ’s message of the coming Kingdom to go forward in ways that would not have been otherwise possible if Jesus hadn’t completed His mission.

Easter brings so many emotions with it. From despair in the death of Christ on Good Friday to the waiting and mourning of Saturday to the elation of the resurrection on Sunday, we see the fullness of the gospel revealed. Today, the Kingdom of God is expanding to all nations and to every corner of the earth by the power of the Holy Spirit. It is easy for us to see now that it truly was to our advantage that Jesus would give His life for each of us.

That said, you may be feeling as though you are disadvantaged at this present moment. Perhaps, you have been in a season where you have seen little or no progress in some areas of your life. I know that for me, the daily challenges of being a great husband, father of three and being a great Christ like example in the world today can leave me feeling as if I have lost my advantage.

My prayer for us today is to be reminded and hold fast to the great promise Jesus made to all who follow him. His promised Holy Spirit is alive in us and is the only advantage we will ever need. By His Spirit, we know the truth and can live each day with purpose and hope. By His Spirit, we always have the advantage.

Unrest

Wed, 10 Mar 2021 23:06:34 GMT

Matthew 26

Currently, some of our FCA teammates are reading one of Martin Luther King’s last books called Where Do We Go From Here: Chaos or Community? Here, Dr. King maps out the racial tensions that were occurring 54 years ago, and espouses that as a society we have a choice about how we view one another and respond to those who might not “look” like us on the outside. In his writing, Dr. King states “We still have a choice today: nonviolent coexistence or violent coannihilation. This may well be mankind’s last chance to choose between chaos or community.” In addition, we believe that Dr. King would agree that going beyond coexistence is essential. It involves not just nonviolence but compassion and empathy.

Much of our societal unrest hasn’t changed much since Dr. Kings time. Racism continues to be one of our most divisive issues in our nation. But, my Christian brothers and sisters, we cannot allow the messaging of the world to seep in and create a negative mindset. Instead we must look at the opportunities that exist to love people. As Christians, our response to such a polarizing issue should be to live as Christ lived, and bring hope to a world that is broken and torn apart by the sin of racism. Jesus’s death and the promise it gives us for eternal life brings joy, and the peace of God which transcends all understanding (Philippians 4:7) that those around us will recognize. Unlike the world around us, if we remain confident in this truth our hearts will not remain in a state of unrest.

The world wants to complicate things, but there is a very simple answer when it comes to loving your neighbor. That answer can only be found in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Scripture points us to what it looks like to follow Dr. King’s approach of non-violence fueled by a greater purpose. In Matthew 26, while Jesus and his disciples are in the Garden of Gethsemane, when the Romans arrive to arrest Him, Peter, coming to Jesus’ defense, draws his sword. But, Jesus scolds him, and tells him to put away his sword. Even at that very moment when Jesus knew he was soon going to be unjustly tortured for no good reason, Jesus did not want violence, and was willing to lay down His own life out of empathy and love for a hurting world.

As we look to Jesus’s example, our prayer is that he would use each of us and that we would biblically make the choice of nonviolent coexistence that Dr. King spoke about. In doing so we can recognize and support those who are hurting in a way that ultimately points them back to the One who provides hope.

Like children

Thu, 25 Feb 2021 23:04:57 GMT

Read Luke 18: 15-29

My three children are of the ages where they can all sit on my lap. They have no agenda or specific wants, other than to just be there, in a place where they feel secure and loved. I certainly know that this will not last forever, but I am holding onto it for as long as I can. In these moments I am reminded of the many stories in the Gospel of Luke that tells us of the security that only Jesus can provide.

In Luke Chapter 18 we see children trying to approach Jesus, but His disciples, wanting to give Jesus a break from the crowds, attempt to stop them. But Jesus teaches them, and the crowd surrounding Him, that He wants people to desire to come to Him, like little children, to have their needs met, just as my young children come to me for their safekeeping.

In this chapter, Jesus also teaches a young ruler about eternal life. Desiring to know what good thing he must do to have eternal life, the ruler asks Jesus, “What must I do to be saved?” Jesus then tells him that to have life, he must be willing to give all he has to the poor and follow Him, and then he will have a treasure in heaven. The young ruler was not willing to do so. Instead of walking towards Jesus for his security, he walked away.

We can say we want to follow Jesus, but if it’s not going to cost us anything, and if we don’t willingly come to Him, then we will be like the young ruler who walks away. We must set aside any other security we have in other things and come to Him, and trust Him for all our needs. We need to ask ourselves if there is anything we are putting our security and satisfaction in other than God, because that will likely be the very thing that prevents us from God’s protection and His will for our lives.

Praise

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 23:03:19 GMT

Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Psalm 150:6

At the beginning of each year, I pray and ask God for direction in an area in my life where He wants to grow me, refine me and sanctify me. In considering the word He gave me this year: praise, I ask myself, “What does it actually mean to praise God, and, “Is my relationship with Him one that includes it?” In essence, I’ve been challenged to continually give thanks and praises to God for His grace and goodness.

As we get to know who God is, we can see His goodness and love in the works of others, such as the woman in Proverbs 31 who is honored for all that her hands have done and whose “works bring her praise at the city gate.” Nothing can be added to the simple beauty of this admirable portrait of someone whose labors for her rewards are that of praise.

In my work, I tend to be the type of guy who sets a plan and says, “This is what I’m supposed to do,” and then I go and do it. From there, I plan out the next “to do,” and so on. This is typically the way I operate, which can distract me from focusing on those with whom I live and work. As I meditate on the word praise this year, I want to think of ways I could be praising God, as well as encouraging and affirming others for the works they are doing to bring Him glory, so that my labors are a reflection of God in me.

Through many trials in his life, David becomes so intimately connected with God that he develops a heart like God’s. We see David, often called “a man after God’s own heart,” praising Him. In Psalm 150, David exudes continual praises to God, ending with, “Let everything that has breath praise the Lord.” My desire this year is to spend more time getting to know Him, so that my praises for Him will always be at the forefront of my mind and on my lips, praising Him and affirming those who glorify Him for all He is!

Just Show up

Wed, 27 Jan 2021 23:01:22 GMT

Read: Luke 8:26-39

Shortly after Jesus feeds the 5,000, He gets into a boat and heads to a foreign land opposite of Galilee. There, He encounters a demon-possessed man who is naked and homeless. The moment Jesus arrives, the man knows Jesus is special, simply by the fact that He was willing to show up. Jesus asks him, “What is your name?” Here, Jesus goes to a place where no one else wanted to go to be with this man, and He makes it very personal.

After Jesus heals the man, the people return and see the man is sitting at Jesus’ feet. Fearing His power, they ask Jesus to leave, and as he gets into his boat, the healed man begs Jesus to take him with him, but Jesus says to him, “Go home and tell how much God has done for you.” And the man obeyed.

If we are trying to find direction for today, we can look to the man who didn’t know a thing about how to reach a town who, after he had been set free from his demons, was willing to sit at Jesus’ feet and wait for direction. Jesus showed up, took care of the man’s needs and encouraged him to share all that He had done for him with others. Today, as we witness so many needs, we can take the opportunity to step away from our places of comfort, and extend ourselves to others by God’s grace. What great examples we have been given to follow!

Noise

Thu, 14 Jan 2021 22:59:11 GMT

"For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

Jeremiah 29:11

My junior year of college I had the opportunity to play college football against the reigning FCS (Division IAA) National Football Champions, the Montana University Grizzlies, in the first game of the 2002 season. Missoula, which is home to the Grizzlies, is in the middle of the mountains and due to the acoustics that are created by the stadium and by the nearby mountains, there isn’t a stadium in the country that produces a larger volume on game day… and their stadium only holds 21,000 fans; there are many more stadiums in the country that hold far more fans.

During the game, there was a point when my coach was telling me what he wanted me to do when I got back on the field, and I couldn’t hear a word he said without bringing myself in very close proximity. The noise in the stadium was completely deafening.

As I remember that experience now as the loudest physical noise, I consider the “noise level” we are experiencing today. Although many places are shut down and many people are shuttered, I feel that our world may be the noisiest it’s ever been, even deafening, and that trying to remain focused and quiet to hear God’s voice can be really hard.

At that football game, it wasn’t until I leaned in very close that I could hear my coach’s direction. In this New Year filled with much uncertainty in our world, I know that I need to be hearing from God, perhaps more than ever. Am I willing to try to go deeper with Him? Are you? My prayer is that God would give us the desire to get close enough to hear His voice and to understand the plans He has for us today.

A GRACIOUS FATHER

Thu, 07 Jan 2021 20:35:28 GMT

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

There is a chapter In Paul David Tripp’s book Grace-filled Parenting that spoke to me recently. Tripp shares how God can use us to show our children what a gracious and loving Father we have, One who will progressively deliver them from the hold that sin has on them when they willingly acknowledge their disobedience and come to Him.

Traditionally, at our house my wife and I have stockings hanging fireside before Christmas day, while our children’s stockings don’t appear filled until Christmas morning. In recent years, my six-year-old son Jacob has become more curious, but he has been told to not look inside his stocking until Christmas morning. To this point, the kids have been very compliant. This year however, a few days before Christmas I heard something in the living room. When I walked into the room, there was Jacob looking up at me. Without me ever saying a word, I saw in his eyes that he knew he had done something wrong. Jacob has a strong moral conscience(must be from his mother) and he knew in his own heart that he had gone against his parents’ instruction. Because I saw his remorse, I desired to help him get through it by telling him how he can come to God for forgiveness when he does things he knows are not right in His eyes.

The challenge Tripp presents is if I model how God wants us to respond to Him to my own children, then they will see how they can receive God’s grace. Though my son was wrong for not listening and obeying, as his parent I was able to show him what a gracious and loving Heavenly Father we have if we are willing to come to Him.

We all have times in our lives when we don’t need someone to point out when we’ve done something wrong, because the Holy Spirit will reveal the things in our life that are not of God. If we are willing to come before Him, and relinquish control of our lives to Him who has everlasting love for us, we will always be able to receive His grace and sanctification.

A NEW YEAR MESSAGE

Thu, 31 Dec 2020 20:33:57 GMT

As we all look ahead to the New Year, reflection and optimism typically fill my mind. In one way, the turn of one day on the calendar is an opportunity to reflect on the year behind us and in another way, it is an opportunity to dream about what may take place in the next twelve months. Our theme in 2020 was 100% which was a challenge for each of us to give 100% of ourselves to God. My goodness, was there ever a year that challenged us more to give up everything to Him?

For 2021 we shift our focus and theme for the year to 'Pursue'. In this short verse from 1 Timothy 6:11 we can see the writer’s encouragement to us as to how we are to live in this crazy and unsettled world. However, we must not fail to mention that in all of our pursuit of God, He pursues us even more. He pursued us so much that He was willing to send His only son to earth to rescue you and I from our sins, so that we may have a relationship with God forever!

May God continue to reveal His love for you in the year ahead and may you always be reminded in the big movements and the small ones that His greatest desire and pursuit is you!

MOVIE TRAILER

Thu, 10 Dec 2020 20:31:34 GMT

In my house, I am notorious for the stories I tell my children at bedtime. Some nights are better than others, but for the most part, they are well received. My children choose the characters, which have included Princess Elsa and Luke Skywalker to name a few. Then, I create a story that revolves around these characters, which, most often, are ridiculous tales which make the kids laugh. Recently, my kids have become more interested in movies as opposed to their normal twenty-minute kids’ shows like Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood and Wild Kratts. Often, they want to hear what a movie is going to be about, so I shared with them that they could watch a trailer to learn more.

Shortly after one of our movie nights, I realized how much this new information had registered with my inquisitive daughter Vivian, whose four-year-old mind never stops working. It was one of those nights where story time wasn’t high on my list, and I was thinking about all of the things I needed to accomplish before the day’s end, so I decided to shorten the story. At its conclusion, Vivian called me out, telling me it wasn’t good enough and too short. She actually called my story a “trailer” in her sweet Bostonian accent.

This made me wonder why we don’t slow down to take advantage of the moment. Instead, we show “trailers” of our lives, doing this for a few minutes or that, and not allowing ourselves to develop the stories of our lives which are really about our relationship with God and with others. God doesn’t want to see the trailer of our lives that reveals just the best parts. God wants the unedited version, which takes time, however He patiently waits for us to pour out every part of it to Him. Psalm 139:23 reads, “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.” It is my prayer that you and I will slow our lives down enough to take the time to show Him the full-length version of your lives.

Gone Fishin'

Thu, 12 Nov 2020 20:26:40 GMT

I’m a “let’s have a plan type of guy.” Before taking on a task I usually ask myself, “Do I have the best possible resources and a strategy to carry it out?” In the final chapter of the Book of John, God showed me something I often miss when it comes to taking action.

It is the third and final time that Jesus appears to His disciples following His resurrection. Early in the morning as He is standing on the shore of the Sea of Galilee, He sees His disciples fishing. During His three years of ministry, Jesus had taught his disciples to become fishers of men, yet, they still are not getting it and have returned to their old way of life. Jesus shouts out to them, “Have you any fish?” To which they respond, “No.” He instructs them to cast their net on the other side of the boat, and when they listen to Him to their amazement they bring in 153 fish, and yet the net was not torn! When the disciples listened to Jesus, He provided them with the capacity to catch the fish, even with a net that, in their eyes, was too small and not strong enough.

With his question, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?” he is not being accusatory, He is just checking in with them. Oftentimes when we are presented with something He wants us do we might say, “God, that’s a nice idea, but I can’t do that. I’m not ready for it. I don’t have the capacity to do what it is you really want me to do.” But God says, “Just go do it.” Here, the disciples didn’t have all the right equipment, but He provided it.

Clearly, the disciples needed a new fishing strategy, but it had to come from Jesus. When Jesus tells them, “Bring me some of the fish you have just caught,” He reminds us of the part we play in winning others to Him. He has a part in it, but we have a part as well. When we choose to wait for His guidance and follow it, He will show us how to become His ambassadors.

I wonder how many “fish” we could catch if we went fishing for men, rather than for fish. In Matthew 4:19, Jesus says, “Come, follow me and I will show you how to fish for people.” Metaphorically, we have a part in reaping the harvest of souls for Christ.

John reminds us in his final chapter about Jesus’s desire for us to trust and follow Him in the limited time we have on earth. Just as Jesus’ time on earth was short, we, too, are here for only a while. Are you ready to follow Him right now when He says, “Come, follow me!” even if you think you aren’t ready? Are you willing to trust in His plan, not your own?”

LIVING WATER

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 19:28:54 GMT

Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:13-14

In the story of the Samaritan woman in John 4, Jesus is traveling back to Galilee from Judea, when he decides to make a stop in Samaria. There, He encounters a woman who has come to the well for water. When she realizes who Jesus is, she knows she had been thirsty for much more than the water the well could provide.

Jesus does not initially offer her His living water, instead he asks her a question: “Where is your husband?” He is not able to give her hope in the living water until she admits her own sinfulness in her past relationships. The moment when the woman realizes her brokenness becomes an inflection point in her life. She then returns home where she begins to tell people her testimony and through her story, God transformed an entire village to believe in him.

I was struck by how often we hear God calling us while we are in the middle of wanting something else for our lives. He will wait patiently for us to admit our sin and realize the need we have for Him. Several years ago, I experienced an inflection point when I found myself in a situation that appeared hopeless after causing someone dear in my life tremendous pain. I had made many bad choices, but it wasn’t until I finally admitted I had done something wrong, when things turned around in my life. Like the woman at the well, I had to come to the end of myself before I was able to focus on what He wanted to do in my life.

My encouragement and challenge this week is for us to consider an area of life that needs to be released to God. Are you holding back any intentional or unintentional sin? He is there to take it from you and only his grace can allow for true healing and restoration. His living water can be yours today!

Sacrifice

Thu, 15 Oct 2020 19:23:43 GMT

My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. John 15:12-13

This week I have been continuing my reading in the book of John. In Chapter 15, Jesus commands us to love each other so much that we would be willing to lay down our life for another. When Jesus tells us this, He doesn’t just mean writing someone a birthday card, or a sympathy note, He really wants us to live sacrificially for others.

As someone who will always have the game of football in my DNA, I often find myself drawing analogies to the game, particular during football season. Throughout high school, I enjoyed playing the more high-profile positions on the field, and as team captain, there were many instances when I could enjoy the limelight and feel like “it’s all about me.”

Jesus’s sacrificial command to live for others made me think of my college football years at University of Albany, where my position on the field changed significantly. As a freshman, I started out as a running back, however, it quickly became apparent to my college-level coaches, that it wasn’t the position for me, so I was given two choices: I could play on defensive line, or I could not play football anymore. Not a hard choice! The defensive line is predicated so that every defenseman fills a spot to prevent offensive penetration. There is not much glory in it. It is pure sacrifice. Here, the player’s mindset shifts from “it’s all about me,” to “the team is greater than me.” When on the line, our defensive coordinator, Mike Simpson, would always tell us “do your job… and your job is not going to be pretty.” He knew that doing our job, required us to sacrifice stardom.

Following each game, we watched a lot of film. And the tape never lies.

In reviewing the film, it is easy to see whether a player’s actions were motivated by selfishness or sacrifice. If you did your job, you got praised and rewarded. I got to the point where I wanted to be rewarded, so I needed to continue to lay down my own plan for the team’s plan during every game.

When they replay the film of my life, will they see me living my own way, or will they see me “laying down my life for my friends,” by sliving sacrificially for Christ for the sake of all to come to know Him? I pray my actions will be ones that were not flashy, grand or self-serving, but those of a sacrificial person who loved and cared for people for the sake of others coming to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior.

Who are you?

Thu, 15 Oct 2020 19:20:11 GMT

In the Book of John Chapters 7 and 8, the people of Jerusalem are completely divided about who Jesus is. The words Jesus uses cause some to fear Him, and others to believe in Him.

Some believe he is a Prophet, while others believe that “Surely He is the Christ,” (John 7:40). Both groups notice that there is something different about Jesus by the way He speaks. He speaks with authority, stating, “I am not here on my own, but He who sent me is true. I know Him because I am from Him and He sent me.” (John 8:28) And, He speaks with love, power and compassion as He offers those who are willing to believe in Him “streams of living water from within.” (John 7:38)

When you are asked the question, “Who are you?” How do you respond? Like Jesus, we are defined by the words we use. But, in order to know who we are, we must first know who Jesus is, the Son of the Father, the One who created us. We can’t answer the question, “Who are you?” without first being about to answer the question: Who is Jesus?

As a classic rock fan, The Who’s song Who Are You? comes to mind. Its lyrics describe a musician who has led a vagabond lifestyle of uncertainty and meaninglessness. He realizes that even after the acclaim from an illustrious career, he is still unsure of who he is. Seeking answers, this tired and worn-out musician says, “Eleven hours in the Tin Pan (Alley)…God there’s got to be another way… Who are you? You know I really want to know… my heart is like a broken cup.”

While the song was penned in 1978, the question asked is an anthem for today’s world where people are still searching for purpose and meaning. Neither the world, nor Daltry’s song provide an answer to the question, however Christ does. If you believe Jesus is who He says He is, then when people ask you, “Who are you?” you can, with certainty, respond: “I am His workmanship, and it is on His authority that I speak.”

The Journey

Wed, 02 Sep 2020 19:18:19 GMT

While reading about Paul’s missionary travels in Acts Chapter 23, I was encouraged by the promises God makes to Paul during his missionary journeys. Here we find Paul jailed in Jerusalem after his return from Rome where he has been preaching the gospel. Paul longs to return to his homeland Rome, however, God tells him to stay in Jerusalem, and continue to preach to the Jews, after which he would return to Rome: “Have courage for you have testified about me in Jerusalem, so you must also testify about me in Rome,” promising Paul that he will be returning to Rome, but just not yet.

The Jewish leaders’ opposition to Paul begins to escalate, and they want to break him out of jail and kill him. When Paul’s nephew discovers their plan, he informs the Roman governor who foils their plan. Eventually, Paul returns to Rome and continues on his missionary journey, where he encounters opposition, life-threatening storms and imprisonment. Through all 10,000 miles of Paul’s travels, God is with him as his ministry continues to influence millions.

In the Book of Joshua, following the death of Moses, Joshua finds himself in a situation similar to Paul’s when he is appointed the Israelites’ leader. But, God’s plans will not be denied, and though Joshua lacks confidence, three times in the first nine verses God commands Joshua to “be strong and courageous,” because He will be with Joshua wherever he goes. And, Joshua goes on to lead the Israelites in conquering the land.

I can relate to how Paul and Joshua felt at times during their respective ministries. When I stepped into this ministry eight years ago, there had never been a strategy to develop FCA in New York, a predominantly post-Christian culture with an aggressive approach to remove God from most public institutions. Over time, I could have viewed all those things as reasons to give up or be discouraged. But, during quiet times with God, I was reminded of his command to reach all nations and preach the gospel, including New York State, one of the least Bible-minded states in the country. God has shown me that if He calls you to do something, even if it’s not easy, have courage and keep praying and trusting because He will get it done. And now we are seeing FCA in every upstate town in New York. Click on our staff page to find out what God is doing here now: http://northeastfca.org/who-is-fca/staff/

Mission Impossible

Tue, 18 Aug 2020 19:15:16 GMT

Game Plan

Wed, 05 Aug 2020 19:11:24 GMT

During my coaching years I usually watched between 80-90 hours of film weekly to prepare the game plan for the coming week. In my earlier years of coaching, I would often use the same plan again and again against different opponents, which usually proved ineffective. I learned that I couldn’t just show up with the same plan, but that I had to account for the different nuances of each team and include variations in the game plan.

I find this interesting as it pertains to the ministry of the disciple Paul, who spent much time preparing to share the gospel using his gifts of eloquence and persuasion. In Acts Chapter 19, Demetrius the silversmith is experiencing a loss in the demand of his statues of the goddess Artemis. This is due to the growing number of Christians who are converted through Paul’s message that, with Jesus, there is no need to worship other gods. With his source of income at stake, Demitrius mobilizes the people to start rioting. A mob mentality ensues to the point where most of them don’t even know what they are rioting about (see Acts 19:32).

Paul’s solution to their confusion is to address the assembly in the public forum to persuade them to believe the gospel. In this case, Paul’s usual M.O. of persuasion proves ineffective. The disciples, fearing that Paul will be killed, convince him not to address the people and leave town. They knew that although the church in Ephesus was becoming strong, there were still those who were either not ready or unwilling to hear the gospel.

Just as a coach needs to evaluate each opponent before establishing a game plan, as Christians, we cannot share the gospel in a cookie cutter fashion. Instead, we have to take the time to analyze our audience and hear from the Holy Spirit. We must be solid and consistent on what we believe the Bible says about the nature of our heavenly Father, while at the same time be willing to adapt the message to each unique setting and person. If we think we can run the same play over and over again to different audiences, and are not open to the Holy Spirit’s direction on which “game plan” to use, then we will miss the opportunity to impact others for Christ.

Favoritism

Thu, 25 Jun 2020 19:07:19 GMT

Then Peter began to speak: “I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritismbut accepts from every nation the one who fears him and does what is right. Acts 10:34-5

Today’s current events have caused me to reflect on my days of coaching. Oftentimes, players would talk about who they believed were the coach’s favorites, and a coach’s consistent response was always, “I don’t have favorites.” But in reality, a coach usually does have favorites. And, while I am not proud to admit it, I had favorites, too. When I consider why they were my favorites I realized it had nothing to do with those who were the best, the smartest, or the most popular, it was those players with whom I had spent the most time; and, as an offensive coordinator, it was the wide-receivers, running backs, etc. When you spend time with someone you get to know them and see their heart, and as you do, your love for them grows.

For Peter, his favorites are those with whom he could identify, which in this case is the Jews. In a vision, God tells Peter to visit Cornelius, a Gentile who is a centurion in the town of Caesarean. Peter is puzzled by God’s directive because Gentiles are people who are not traditionally viewed as equals by the Jews, and it is against Jewish law to associate with Gentiles. But Peter is obedient, and during his visit with Cornelius, who is described as a devout and God-fearing man, he learns that God does not show favoritism, but accepts all those who do His will.

What Peter learns by following God’s will can be a lesson to us all. If we don’t follow God’s directive to go to those uncomfortable places where we haven’t gone before, then we will have favorites. As a coach I could have worked harder to know the other players, because that’s the only thing that absolves favoritism. God wants us to develop relationships with all people, and begin to see their hearts and love them just as He does.

Witness

Wed, 10 Jun 2020 19:04:56 GMT

“It is not for you to know the times or dates that the Father has set by his own authority, but you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." Acts 1:7-8

Today, there is racial unrest, with emotions and tensions at a high. The COVID-19 pandemic has brought both death and isolation. As Christians, what is our responsibility as part of “the Church?”

I have the privilege of working with an incredible staff here in Upstate, New York. They are men and women called by God to lead coaches and athletes into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church. We have a diverse team and three of the staff I serve alongside are African-American. Over the past two weeks our entire staff has had many conversations surrounding the impact of racism in America and how we should respond as witnesses for Christ. These conversations have allowed our team to grow, heal and most importantly show compassion for our black and brown brothers and sisters who have been hurt and are hurting. In all transparency, we have discovered that there are no clear and easy ways to combat this issue, but each of us are in agreement that it will be by the power of Christ given by the Holy Spirit that we can fight this evil together in the days ahead.

Responding compassionately is the model Jesus gave us time and time again as we look to His word for direction. In our day, even during this socially distant reality, compassionate responses are still possible. Prayer, writing letters, providing a meal or a phone call or text message, listening to another person’s experience and perspective —are all ways we can be a witness for Christ to the world and specifically to those hurting and in need of hope. In a court of law, a witness is someone who testifies with conviction about something for which he can give an account. If we believe Jesus Christ is who He says he is, and did what He said he did through His shed blood, we can be confident that no matter what the situation, we can speak with conviction about the impact of His resurrection in our own lives to bring hope. By demonstrating God’s love in these ways, He can heal our relationships and the world. May God’s grace be upon you today as you represent and witness for Christ in your life.

Names

Sun, 07 Jun 2020 19:09:49 GMT

My lips will glorify you because Your faithful love is better than life. So I will praise You as long as I live; at Your name, I will lift up my hands. Psalm 63:3-4

The arrival of our third child is approaching. We don’t have a name yet, and we don’t even know the gender. Our society values names, and I too think they are important. We named our son Jacob whose “wrestling match” with an Angel of God causes change and renewal in his life, and now at age five he is beginning to understand the meaning behind his name. And although we had no idea what she would become, our daughter Vivian, meaning animated and lively , is already living up to her name!

Every act of naming has meaning. Throughout history, we have named places and iconic symbols after people to recognize their achievements. But, what is the value of a name? As I consider my own name, I have often thought of David as an honorable man in the Bible, yet he is also a person with many flaws. Names, specifically human names that is, will almost always cause us to be reminded of people for their virtue as well as their failure. Thus, people in our world often become elevated or dimonized undeservedly.

These verses are a clear and direct reminder that there is only one name that should ever be lifted up to a place of honor. The Psalmist writes with conviction and passion – “ at Your Name”. He is speaking directly to his Creator, God and Father and putting His name above all others. It makes me think…Do I have as much reverence for the name of God as I do for my own name or the names of other people? It is my prayer for you and me that take time daily to lift up our hands to glorify the Name Above All Names because “his faithful love is better than life”.

Seconds

Tue, 26 May 2020 19:02:16 GMT

In the same way let your light shine before men so that they will see every good work and glorify our Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16

Last week, I watched the documentary Breaking2 , which chronicled the lives of three elite marathon runners. The project was an experiment created by Nike to see if one of the runners could break the two-hour marathon barrier. In November 2016, the runners began six months of a scientifically advanced, rigorous training plan. Then, on May 6, 2017, the privately held race took place at Italy’s Formula One Autodromo Nazionale Monza race track where Eliud Kipchoge’s first place finish was clocked at 2 hours and 25 seconds– just one second behind for each mile had cost him the record!

As I watched the post race interviews, it was interesting to observe the lives of these three runners, and hear what motivated each to want to break the record. One wanted to be the greatest. The next had great pride for his countryman and wanted to do it for his country. But, Eliud Kipchoge described running as his life’s calling, and explained that he was running for a greater purpose. What separated him from the other runners was that he was confident he was going to accomplish his goal eventually, because he knew God had called him to be a runner.

Two years later, on October 13, 2019, Kipchoge ran a marathon in less than two hours. His time, 1:59:40, is the fastest any runner has ever covered 26.2 miles. He had finally achieved his goal. He had learned the value of seconds and had committed every second of his life to his life’s calling: to glorify God.

Kipchoge provides an example to us as Christians to ask ourselves: am I committing the seconds of my day to Him? Are my actions reflecting Christ’s light in such a way that people see my every good work and are able to look through me to see God? Maybe there is something I need to add or reduce to my “training” to ensure I am able to glorify God in every way of my life.

As we live with the hope of eternity to come and our desire to see more people come to know and grow in Jesus, it will be the sum of all the “seconds” we accumulate over our lifetime that will make the biggest difference in the end. Each day is a gift and an opportunity to do something, as small as it may seem, to help advance the kingdom one step at a time.

Where is the Church

Wed, 13 May 2020 18:48:54 GMT

This past week an article in The Wall Street Journal stated that 72% of Americans today would be uninterested in attending any major sporting events. In a culture where the majority of our lives have revolved around the god of sports, it’s unbelievable to think that attending a sporting event is now of little interest to people, and that every sport event and season is in jeopardy.

There is much uncertainty beyond the sports world as well. The unemployment rate is trending toward the Great Depression-era highs. While Covid cases appear to be on the decline, there are still nearly 2,000 people each day dying from this outbreak. The information we receive from news sources contains differing reports on every issue, and there is even more confusion in government with the national and the local governments failing to come to agreement on important issues. We find ourselves in a position where there appears to be no end in sight, and no clear cut answers of any kind.

This unprecedented time is certainly uncertain. Yet, despite our daily questioning of what we are supposed to do, or be, there is one thing we can be certain of — God’s promises in His unchanging and reliable Word.

In the final two paragraphs in Romans 16, Paul gives his final instructions, farewell and encouragement to the believers in Rome, his dear friends, fellow prisoners, and Jewish brothers that have risked their lives for him. As Paul writes under the growing power and turmoil of the Roman Empire, he is living in an incredibly uncertain time for the Church, yet, he remains focused on his one mission and encourages his Christian brothers and sisters to continue to work hard for the Lord to advance the gospel to all nations. He reminds his friends and us to remain obedient to their faith in God and His Word. Paul gets much of the credit for the New Testament, but we can see from these passages that God used many people to encourage Him and grow the Church.

In these days, I find myself asking, “How do I want people to remember me? What Christ-like characteristics do they think of when they consider my life? “Did I encourage them in their relationship with the Lord?” The only thing that can bring me peace about these questions is sitting down with God’s word, and being reminded that all He desires is my obedience, He is on the throne and He loves you and me. “The Lord builds the house” and by remaining obedient to His Word, He will accomplish His mission of loving the world unto Himself.

Certain Uncertainty

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 18:35:44 GMT

Childlike Faith

Mon, 13 Apr 2020 18:33:33 GMT

In the midst of the current coronavirus crisis in the world, I have been reflecting on what God is teaching me. Quarantined inside my home with my two young children I get new pop-ups across my phone, am on more zoom calls than ever before, and continue to watch the death rate climb. In contrast, I observe my children whose one desire is to play on the swing set in our backyard. They have no concern for the things of the world that we are no longer able to do during this time: kids sports activities, frequent shopping outings, trips to the gym, and so on. My children have no idea of the changes in the outside world, yet they do sense that something is wrong, and my son prays: “Dear God I pray that all the sick people in the world would be healed, and that heaven would be a lot better than it is down here.”

His simple prayer reminded me of a time during Jesus’ earthly ministry, when some children were brought to Him so that He could lay hands on them and pray for them. The disciples tried to turn the children away, but Jesus said, “ Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these ” (Matthew 19:13-14). The children didn’t care what the Pharisees or the disciples thought, they just ran to Jesus – He was all they needed.

In a world where we are searching for bigger and better “stuff”, and always on the go searching for the next best thing, all God desires from us is a child-like faith where we trust in Him completely and are thankful for what we have. He wants to be our Father, and the one “thing” we hope for, just as small children have the desire for the simple things in life, and the security of being home with mom and dad.

During such times as today where we are stripped of much of the things we believe are important, we can be confident in the hope of salvation through His Son, the Savior of the World, as Paul reminds us in his letter to the Romans: “… because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 5:4-5)

Filling the gap

Thu, 26 Mar 2020 15:03:00 GMT

This past weekend, we took the opportunity as a family to visit a local park. It was a cool nevertheless beautiful sunny day! This particular park was full, it was amazing to see so many people outside. In fact, it may have set a record for the amount of people it contained in one day for the month of March. Now I know what you’re thinking: “Isn’t everyone supposed to be social distancing?” This is a rather large park, and everyone exhibited proper social distancing measures.

As we walked through the park, I began to observe the surroundings and that is when this thought and eerie feeling came over me. I realized; I am seeing more people in my neighborhood right now that I never even knew existed since we moved to the area in 2013. Due to the current world crisis, no one stopped to talk or acknowledge anyone else. There was no interaction and it seemed so ironic and I was overcome with sadness.

The next day I woke up with that same sad feeling, but naturally went about my day. I took the kids outside to play in the front yard and just as we were wrapping up our 26 th game of hide and seek, a woman walked by who I hadn’t seen before. I was immediately drawn to the fear on her face and could also sense it in her spirit. A thought came to me, almost as if God was reminding me, “you know Dave, it doesn’t have to be this way”. I said hello to her to start a conversation. From about 15ft feet away I asked her name and where she lived, and we began to chat. I found out that her son Jason is in New York City and that she was worried about him. I told her that I would keep her son in my prayers. She smiled, she thanked me and then continued to walk on.

What I was reminded of is that God is so much bigger than all of this. Despite this pandemic, He has designed us first to be in relationship with Him and then to be in relationship with others. Each of us during this time can choose to fill the gap of time and isolation by finding connection to others so that the world can be encouraged by the love of Jesus Christ. Perfect love drives out all fear and only God’s love for us is perfect. Ask the Lord what he would have you do today to share his love and let His light shine in you!

‘Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. ‘

1 John 4:11

Transition

Thu, 19 Sep 2019 15:03:01 GMT

The new school year is now well underway and after just two weeks, life seems to have settled into its new rhythm for our household. Two children off to school and two adults off to work each day has been an adjustment for our family. Even though I am well aware that so many families today embark on the same journey we have, that doesn’t seem to bring me much comfort. Adjusting to new routines and transitioning from one stage of life to another is mentally and physically exhausting.

I am blessed to have an incredible teammate in my wife Kate, but she and I have both looked at each other in this season with the “deer in headlights” look from time to time. Amidst preparing lunches for school, playing Uber for the kids, growing career demands and various other family needs, life can feel like a series of tasks that have no end and lead to nowhere.

Life seems to be a blur these days and as the weeks fly by, I’m often left asking myself: “Lord, did I do anything this week that will make an eternal impact for your kingdom?”

I am thankful for God’s word and specifically this week for Paul’s letter to the Corinthian church. In 1 Corinthians 2:1-5 there is a passage written by Paul that God often uses to bring me back to Him. This allows me to not focus so much on what I am doing but what He is doing in me.

Verse 2 reads, “For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except for Jesus Christ and him crucified”. The Corinthian church was in the process of transitioning to maturity in the Christian faith. They continued to add more people and more complexity to their faith than Paul had originally instructed them to when he first visited. Paul takes the opportunity in Chapter 2 to remind them and us, that we bring nothing. God brings it all! No matter what He has you doing…simple or complex, fast paced or slow and steady, He is more interested in what we are becoming than what we are doing.

So I can continue to run my race…literally…and so can you and we can do it with joy if we stay focused on the gospel transforming us moment by moment into who God wants us to be.

This week it is my prayer that you and I can “resolve to know nothing” but the grace and truth of the gospel in our lives.